An old tennis match between two sisters, Venus and Serena Williams, had me thinking a lot about sisterhood. While many wished for both sisters to succeed on the tennis court, it is not realistic and always bittersweet when they have to compete against one another. There can only be one champion at the end. In the same token, it is inspiring to witness each of them living out their dreams and being competitive star athletes, no matter the opponent. In the very intense match, the world watched as both sisters zoned out and showcased their courageousness and talents on the big stage. They each shared a common goal – to win and make history. No matter the outcome, it was still considered in my eyes a win-win situation seeing either one of them move forward. I just want the Williams sisters to WIN in general!

There was a special moment at the end of the match that caught my attention. The sisters embraced as Serena clenched the victory and I saw Venus mouth the words, “I am so happy for you.“ My eyeballs immediately began to sweat and my heart swelled at such a beautiful display of a loving sisterhood, not to mention great sportsmanship. Even though Venus did not get her desired outcome, she still wanted her sister to succeed.

This is a perfect segway in exploring why sisterhood is so important. Who is in your “front row” (as Sophia Nelson would say)?

Sisterhood is Essential to the Soul.

It is an important, necessary component in the lives of women. We hear often that some women avoid friendships with other women due to drama, cattiness, etc., but as much as having male friends is awesome, there is nothing like building genuine relationships with  women. Drama can come from any direction and says more about the people you choose to associate with (or maybe yourself) than a specific gender….so there is that. I honestly don’t know where I would be without my sisterhood.

Values and Tradition

Women share specific, unique bonding experiences that only our hearts would deeply understand. When I say “sister”, I am not only referring to blood relatives, but also the “sister-friends” we choose. Our teachings and values on upbringing, health, childhood, beauty & style, home economics, careers, motherhood, marriage and relationships are all carried on from generation to generation. I will never forget the traditions and values passed down to me from all the special women in my life – many of whom are not even blood relatives! I will, in turn, grant those same precious gems to my daughters. Sisterhood is preserving our traditions, as well as creating new ones.

Inspiration

Women are breaking barriers and shattering glass ceilings everyday in an effort to move us forward as a collective. Everything we touch turns to gold and it is apparent that we are a force to be reckoned with when building/banding together. We are inspired, supportive and inspirational. True sisters want you to WIN…and you should want THEM to win as well!

Compassion

Something the world needs now more than ever is compassion. A legitimate concern and care for others. There are many times where we feel weak or overwhelmed, and it is great to know that people who can relate are in the wings offering understanding and sympathy during the rough times. Sisters aim to help and not hurt.

I will never forget the moment where I felt like throwing in the towel as far as being an entrepreneur. Yes, I was getting ready to toss YEARS of blood, sweat and tears down the drain. And that same week, a fellow sister reached out to me totally randomly to encourage me to keep going. That sister was my angel. This small, random act of kindness shifted my entire mindset to a place of positivity.

Tough Love

A little tough love can go a long way and is so necessary when it comes to another’s well-being. A true sister will call you out on your mess and urge you to take responsibility for your actions – in love! The truth may sting for a while, but it is a blessing to know that someone cared enough to have your best interests at heart and help you get back on track. Nobody needs a “yes” woman in their circle….we need to be surrounded by those who tell us exactly what we need to hear, as well as offer support. It is not enough to just offer critique; we need to help offer solutions as well.

Safe Haven

Every woman needs a tight sister-circle, which consists of your front-runners, offering a safe place to unwind, catch up and share experiences. They cheer you on at your best and encourage you at your worst. There is something wonderful about being loved and accepted while being unapologetically yourself. Sisterhood builds trust.

What does sisterhood mean to you?